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Amor Fati: A Life More Loved

Amor Fati: A Life More Loved

I woke up one morning eleven years ago with the song playing in my mind: “This is not my beautiful my house…This is not my beautiful life...My god, what have I done?” I wanted to explode everything. This wasn’t the life I had chosen. This wasn’t what I ordered. Let me...

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The Soulless Ghost of Rejection

The Soulless Ghost of Rejection

I hate being rejected. It makes me feel flattened, beaten down. A ghost without a soul. I’m the little kid who gets called “brownie” because the teacher calls on her too much, the girl whose crush looks right through her, the woman whose memoir is turned down by a...

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Video #44 – When Your Relationship Is Doomed

Video #44 – When Your Relationship Is Doomed

My husband knows me better than anyone. He knows the way I stand with my toe pointed when I brush my teeth and that I loathe sharing my favorite snacks with other people. When something goes wrong, he’s the closest one to me, and it’s so, so tempting to blame him....

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Who Are You Becoming? This Is Me

Who Are You Becoming? This Is Me

I took up my own challenge and wrote a description of my Future Self. This is who I saw. She is empowered, confident, compassionate, generous, true, playful, sexy, sensual. She walks into a room and people notice, not because she is loud or because she draws...

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