Adventures on the Blog
Stories, (Un)Marketing experiments, inspiring conversations and spiritual business
The Tragedy of the Lost Keys
Keys, keys. Wherefore art thou, keys? When last my hands caressed thy cool metal, thy humble lanyard dangling ‘gainst my heaving breast, we departed together upon an Uber chariot. Together, we ventured forth into the world, and together, I presumed, we should return....
How to Find the Next Natural Step
A while ago I asked a question: “Which of these feels most true for you right now?” Then I gave six plausible responses to choose from. I thought the answers might be all over the place. They weren’t. 3 people responded: "I know what I want to create, but I keep...
Don’t Believe Everything You Think (Inspired by Marina Galán)
Yesterday, my mind delivered me a thought. “You are damaged. Doomed to repeat the patterns of your past.” It was a truly horrible thought, a life sentence on my soul. I believed it, and my mind was my master. Today, my mind delivered me a thought. “There you go –...
What to Say to Someone Who Is Suffering Isn’t About What to Say (It’s What to See)
I hadn’t seen my friend in a few years, and he didn’t look good. His eyes were dull, his shoulders dropped. His skin had a gray color like he’d been carrying a burden for too long. Then he what the last four years had been like. His business had dried up. He’d taken a...
How to Find Perspective On a “Bad Day”
Today was one of those days. I had a cloud of dumbass hanging over me. I just felt confused, like the frequency was scrambled. So I went off to pole dance class, hoping to clear my head. Except that sometimes when you’re feeling like an idiot, you do stupid things....
What the Movie Her Teaches Us About Feelings and Being Human
Her is one of my all-time favorite movies. I’m an awful critic when it comes to stories, but this one, well…I think it’s damn near perfect. Joaquin Phoenix plays Theodore, a sensitive man who’s heartbroken after divorce. He falls in love with an operating system...
How to Stop Waiting for Happiness
Almost ten years ago, I made the choice to leave my marriage of 17 years, my home in New York, and my life as I knew it. Not because I was unhappy. I loved my husband. We were best friends and amazing business partners. We owned two beautiful homes and had loving...
Do Coaches Need to Be Experts to Help Others?
I remember feeling myself bristle when someone said this about hiring a coach: "Make sure you hire someone who has already done what you want to do. Otherwise, they're not qualified." I hear the wisdom in that. If I was having brain surgery, I’d definitely want a...
Let’s have a Wild Creation chat!
Tell me what lights you up, where you’re flummoxed, and how I can help. We’ll set off for a conversation that surprises and delights us both.