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a woman looking outside thr stormy weatherI am driven to know what you want.

What you really want.

Why?

Because desire isn’t frivilous. It’s diagnostic. It points directly to what you’re here to do and the shape of a life that actually fits.

Over time, my ears have become attuned, my heart has been sensitized to the clever and elegant (aka bullshit) thinking peopleuse to talk themselves away from their own desires. The justifications. The deflections. The fantasies that keep desire theoretical.

We’re not wrong for doing this. We learned it.

Somewhere along the way most of us absorbed the ideas that desire is bad, impractical, selfish, unrealistic, irrelevant. And we try to protect ourselves from it.

But if you want to live your life, your way, desire matters. It’s essential.

Which brings me to a phrase about me that may be uncomfortably accurate::

The Muse Who Stops People From Thinking Their Way Out of the Life They Actually Want

I will gently poke, provoke and persist until you admit what you actually desire, and I won’t let you talk yourself out of it.

If you invite me, of course.

If you allow it.

If you are willing to look.

What you desire isn’t dangerous. It doesn’t obligate you to do anything. You don’t even have to pursue it.

It’s simply information. A potent ingredient. When it’s acknowledged, it wakes up your life’s magic.

If you’re curious what might shift if you stopped arguing with your wanting, a DragonHeart Portal conversation might be the place to explore that.

We’ll listen for what you want. Really.

Then we’ll look at why you want it.

From there, the next step reveals itself. It always does, and it always starts exactly where you’re standing now.

This is a conversation for the brave, the willing, the DragonHearted (or those who want to be). It might be for you.

If it is, you’ll know. You may book your DragonHeart Portal session with the Muse here.

Yours in love and play,

Steph 🐲❤️‍🔥

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